Story of Dalili Sofiya

It's been ....6 years.

She is now 6 years old. Time flies so fast.

I am happy, blessed and having wonderful times having her in our life.

But i can't deny the fact the yes, i am worried for her.

What happened, really? we had to answer similar questions everytime new people see her and know that she still cannot talk and walk like a 6-years-old.

Here it is:

My pregnancy went smoothly until the birthing process. Adam, the elder brother, was born healthy via c-sect after nearly 24 hours of labour pain. 

Sofiya, on the other hand, had me in intense labour pain for 4 hours after my water was broken by the nurse at 12midnight. The pain before the breaking thing was bearable.at 3am we tried for normal delivery and after few tries i asked for C-Sect. I felt out of energy.

My request was denied with "sabar, beranak memang sakit". 

Vacuum was introduced and failed. at 6am, i was on the on the way to surgery room and i could hear the surgeon said "it's too late".

Hence, on Feb 25th 2007, Sofiya was born via c-sect and was in NICU 2 weeks after that.

I was told that her chance was only 50/50 and if the 3rd drug didn't work on her, nothing will.

Alhamdulillah. It worked and her epilepsy or sawan ceased until today.

Except, she was out of oxygen during birthing process and 2 years later, she was pronounced as Cerebral Palsy. She had Global Developmental Delay where even at 1 year old, she couldn't even sit on her own yet.

There you go. I think i got it all covered. 

MUET & Birthday

Sangat penat dari trip JKT-BDO-JKT. Tapi seblom itu.

.i've been meaning to update on my birthday thingy and MUET.

Oct 15th.

Speaking test MUET kat SMK Subang Utama., Subang Jaya. Nasib baik aku check slip exam balik. Mati2 aku ingat exam kat SMK Sek17 subang jaya!!

well mcm biasa 7.30am meant 8.30am! sampai2 je yg lain2 nampaklah mcm budak2

demmm..anyway aku mmg nervous.lama x exam kot.

tp yg sengal nye pagi2 lg dh nampak muka ini..

boley? 

Tapi yang aku kesalkan, apsal puan2 penjaga perlu garang tak tentu pasal dan treat kami mcm budak2?

contoh?

Kalau ye pun nak soh orang off HP, takyah la bagi arahan "tolong bungkus HP masing2 dengan suratkhabar dan letak dalam neh ye. sila offkan HP sekarang". dengan nada mcm mak tiri.

tak bley cakap elok2? orang dengar gak kot...

so citernye, aku group ke 3 and my groupies semua lah muda2 termasuk aku okayyy..hahah

tajuk? something like " what is the best solution for parents when it comes to chidlcare?"

1. Get a maid

2. One parent resigns

3. Employer to provide childcare centre at workplace

4. work from home

obviously, budak2 tuh baru je habis sekolah atau tengah dalam uni stage. so, reality has not bite yet.

I was candidate C and i got point no 3 to speak of during 2-minutes individual session and to discuss with group in the next 10 minutes discussions.

At the end of the discussion, the group shall reach a conclusion. Candidate A, a TESL-ian, who needs to get Band 4 to continue her degree in TESL, was adamant to stick with her No.1 point. No 2 & No 4 were straightaway agreeable with me.

obviously, after i presented the reality which do bite, they agree with Point no 3 as the most suitable solution.

Persuasive me?

After brunch with Pojik, whom group didn't reach any conclusion, i went to office for my 1/2 day balance. It was my birthday okayyy. I was quite ready for the flour & eggs throwing session but alas, the kids didn't have enough courage kot..hahah (mau kena marah dengan superbisa ini)

After much straightforward hinting, i finally got my birthday gift from my team. Thank you Anas, Zita, Hana, Shafi, Wan & Helmi. you guys are the best. (kot2 terpaksa?)

Powerbank 11200maH tuuu....(banyak membantu during my JKT trip)

Risik2 depa beli kat Lowyat for udner RM200. What a bargain...

Neh plak treat dari Hazreen , Ila and last minute joined by Anas & Helmi secara FOC ..Nijah bole plak bz...

siul nye banyak lilin kat kek..'

location: Karaoke Songbox Subang Parade.

Lagu wajib neh. agak2 lagu apa?

Hadiah budak2 neh plak...wa  muka aku buruk ke noooookkkk...

dan yg paling mengejutkan, tudung tuh...

Alice & Susan bagi...bila aku buka je kotak, aku nampak tudung...rajin depa neh pi carik...pastuh nampak tag..AJ...pe lagi,,,,Adijuma la....perghhh RM40++ tuh...Datin Norjuma punya tudung bawal okayyy....

papepun, tq so much guys and gurls.

Oh and to a certain mR Jay Bond, monetary gift already converted to self-learning book. How to be a good leader. best baca. bole apply kat budak2 neh,..miahahah...

and to DH, thank you for sponsoring my JKT trip expenses...trip BDO bole sponsor lagi?

So, MUET Reading, Listening and Writing will be on November 11th plak.

Doakan aku pass cantek.

Next post: Jakarta 2013.